Friday, October 4, 2013

all is forgiven - much ado about nothing or is it?

ALL IS FORGIVEN
        Easier said than done, Granted forgiven, but never forgotten.


       Gee, I was looking through my files and I came across this piece I started some time ago and will now have to figure out when it was written and what issues in my life led to this conclusion as I write along here. Presently I am clueless but can remember writing this and yet not quite sure what it was all about, except I had some personal issue I was thinking about and had some strong emotional feelings that prompted me to write. Sometimes when I am at an impasse in life I have a tendency to write my feelings out and I feel this may have been part of it. I will guess it started with my last girlfriend, as I tried to write away the misery.
      Next I could have come from either of my dad issues, my real dad or my step dad. Both at times had some real issues. Maybe I was trying to atone for their sins, as if I am the one who should be responsible for that. Another possible source could be these beautiful Ohio grey days. It is sometimes like living in the world’s biggest bong and visibility beyond a couple hundred feet us almost nil. You take in a breath of pure moisture but release none and your mind becomes as cloudy and grey as the day. It is on these days I have a tendency to drift away and try to write. Maybe this day is as far as I was able to write, as things got foggy.  
      The title is possibly a start to another novel I was going to write, the first two sentences is as far as I was able to make it. I’m sure I had a plot and may have had some mental notes but thought that maybe the subject title was too heavy handed at the time or possibly something else pulled me away and I am now just getting back to writing. Now if I could just find those damn mental notes I had. I am sure they are not in the computer I already checked.
   I am going to check the creation date and this should give me some idea where my head was at this time, and maybe it might spur my memory. I am just hoping it had nothing to do with my last gf as I felt that I was pretty well over that. Before I go back and check I need to state on my behalf that maybe she knew what she was doing. She kept saying she had commitment issues and should not be in a relationship, considering how things turned out, I tend to believe she was right this time. I seem to have little belief that the woman is always right in these issues and of course they being the ones I tend to like the most tell me I have reality issues and I have a hard time accepting. Maybe I do and this must be what the book title is about if there is one, all this looks way to formal for just a letter to an ex. Then again if it is an ex why bother with the letter anyhow. I am just trying to wrap my head around all the possibilities and as I dig deeper into my grey folds. I realize this could be about a variety of things and still may be all fiction and quite rightly nothing. Standing alone the title and the first two sentences says a lot. That where it starts to pale though, and when I try to sort the white from the black and I still end up in the grey funk of Ohio.
      I look back and it is created 4-09, 2011. Wow kinda blows my mind as it predates my last Girlfriend(GF) and leaves me in middle of nowhere. April 9th 2011 , quite a while back and must have been soon after I received my last new laptop. Maybe it was a experimentation but still feel from the title it has to almost do with a woman. Most of my emotional events that prompt writings of this sort are usually associated with this type of behavior on my part.  It may easily have had something to do with an old GF from New York I also liked . I will go and check for all the pics I have from around that time and see what I was up to and my frame of mind at the time. Also possibly it will also give me a clue as to who I was seeing or had just saw, prior to that.
      This whole article I am writing is like being a detective asking just what was Kevin doing on April 9 2011. Amazingly enough I’m enough of computer junkie I can almost figure with some accuracy just what I was doing on that day. I will check for pics prior to that day and afterward as well as on that day. Then I can go to my Facebook page and possibly get a clue there. And any emails I might have that I haven’t deleted. It’s amazing when you start thinking about how wrapped up we are in technology and in some cases can use it to restore our memory to some degree. I guess hence the reason for diaries or journals. Speaking of that I just remembered I might have a blog from that date as I have been writing on here probably that long. So now I need to pursue those two pieces of clues as to what I was doing on April 9 , 2011.
      

    Well looking back at April 9 th , this is what I found . Apparently I didn’t have any camera in my hand that day and had no entries on Facebook for that time. But I did for days prior to and after that. But it just gave me a clue as to what it was I am looking for and that was the reason I started the book. And I am most positive it had to do with a dad issue the first one. Anyhow as I check this out and finally finuish the story I intend to take you along on my ramblings for ther next couple of days and finally finish an unused title and start to a book I never finished. (to be cont. )
     Pics taken around 4-9-2011:




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